Korean Lifestyle in 12 Episodes | Episode 11: The Culture of Jeong (정) – Warmth in Korean Human Relations

What Is Jeong?

One of the most uniquely Korean cultural concepts is jeong (정)—a word that resists direct translation. Often described as a mix of affection, attachment, and compassion, jeong is a deep emotional bond that forms through shared experiences, time, and care. It is not fleeting like passion, nor contractual like duty; it is enduring, quiet, and powerful.

Historical and Cultural Roots

  • Confucian Influence: In a society shaped by Confucian ethics, relationships and harmony have always been prioritized. Jeong reflects this emphasis on social bonds.

  • Community Life: Traditional Korean villages fostered interdependence—neighbors shared food, labor, and child-rearing. Out of such practices, jeong grew naturally.

  • Family Structures: Multi-generational households and tight-knit family ties reinforced emotional closeness as a cultural norm.

The Social Meaning of Roots

Jeong reflects Korea’s collective orientation, where relationships are central to personal identity.

Everyday Expressions of Jeong

Jeong is not abstract; it lives in daily acts.

  • Sharing Food: Offering a portion of one’s meal, or sending side dishes (banchan) to neighbors, is a gesture of jeong.

  • Lasting Friendships: Even after years of separation, relationships built on jeong often resume as if no time has passed.

  • Kindness to Strangers: A taxi driver going the extra mile or a shopkeeper giving a free snack often expresses jeong, not business strategy.

  • Forgiveness and Loyalty: Jeong can explain why people remain loyal to old friends, colleagues, or even flawed institutions.

Jeong in Modern Korea

Despite rapid urbanization and individualism, jeong persists.

  • Workplace Bonds: Colleagues often feel jeong after working late nights together, fostering loyalty beyond contracts.

  • Romantic Relationships: Couples describe long-term affection as jeong, distinct from initial attraction.

  • Social Media and Online Communities: Even in digital spaces, Koreans form attachments that echo traditional jeong.

The Double Edge of Jeong

While mostly positive, jeong can sometimes create burdens—obligations to stay in relationships, forgive debts, or maintain ties even when inconvenient.

Why Jeong Matters

Jeong is a key to understanding Korean warmth. It explains why hospitality feels so genuine, why friendships endure, and why communities remain resilient. For outsiders, learning about jeong reveals the emotional depth behind Korean culture—a depth not easily captured in economics, politics, or pop culture.


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